SHOCKING GIRLS

Do you want to shock girls?

Are you an average man?

These questions are posed to Indian men. I read these and related questions attached to an ad while checking my Yahoo Mail this afternoon. They want men to buy Vimax to increase their potency enhancing the size of their reproductive organ.

I found this ad, the related human figures and the challenging questions funny.

The world is down with economic recession. Big Boss Barack Obama is struggling hard to rescue the US citizens.

In India, the general election season is drawing close. Political parties are busy discussing strategies and alliance possibilities and difficulties.

Indian male software engineers are unable to find suitable brides to marry early. Job seekers are looking for jobs and the current holders are trying to retain their positions.

There is no scarcity of burning issues in India or abroad. We all know how to create them, suffer due to them and then try to resolve them. We are all challengers from this perspective of human struggle to continue living somehow. At this juncture of many issues, increasing the size of the male organ did not fit well for me.

According to the general knowledge I gained reading books, the satisfaction for a couple in intercourse does not depend on the depth or the lengths of the respective genitalia. Some of the following factors determine how close and happy a man and woman can be in their conjugal lives:

1. Mutual trust that the other is dedicated to him/her only in matters of bodily pleasures.

2. Sustainable financial positions for both the partners supported by others as well.

3. Being away from extra-marital relationships, each imposing rules upon oneself.

4. Finding time to communicate and share the feelings and emotions of each other.

5. Keeping fit physically and mentally taking every measure possible for the same.

6. Having rational, ideal and scientific thinking on what keeps both happy in bed.

7. Clearly knowing and practicing that intercourse has to be humanly, not brutal or sadistic.

8. Treating each other as a lovable and sensitive creature than an abnormal s.x maniac.

A boy and girl or a man and woman can be happy and comfortable as long as they find each other admirable for many reasons, making s.x just a little part of human life. Extremist thinking in any branch of human activity leads one to suffering and other related disorders. Doing something more is not necessary in all the cases because if you run endlessly, you would die somewhere. S.x also belongs to this list of topics related to human life, affecting it in a positive way. If you do it moderately, you remain a good human being. If you do it extremely with one partner or many partners, you would lose taste for it in course of time. Slow and steady wins the race.

There are a hundred ways for boys to please girls, not only s.x:

1. Love them honestly.

2. Appreciate them decently.

3. Be friendly with them ideally.

4. Serve them devotedly, not expecting anything back from them.

5. Write classic poetry admiring their features or qualities.

6. If you want to marry them, prove them why you deserve to marry them.

7. Give them enough time to think and get back to you.

8. If they never got back, may be there are some reasons for why they can't accept you.

9. Believe that they are more sensitive and vulnerable than we boys and men.

10. They are still struggling for space. Help them grow and love you proactively one day.

11. Their wearing revealing clothes is to allow you to see their beauty, not grabbing it.

12. Their silence or negligence toward you might be to hint you that they are helpless.

13. They can love all but can't express it to all because they are not public property.

14. They too have preferences and priorities in their lives. Consider them individuals.

15. They remain bitches forever if you call them so. Know why they became so.

16. Their very presence might keep you happy. Let them know it fairly.

Sensitive lovers can add their points to the above list. There are broadly three kinds of males in this world:

1. Those that project themselves as great boys and men because they had s.x with many girls and women.

2. Those that did not have s.x with many girls and women but tell others they did so much in that direction to prove their potential to the other side, wrongly or rightly.

3. Those that sleep with the right partner only for the right reasons for leading a right life always.

From the three kinds of individuals, those that belong to the third category help build a healthy family, society and nation. Admirable India at large.

Shocking girls in the wrong way leads to unrest and barbarism in a society. Attracting all in the right ways helps us build a healthy, peaceful and prosperous society.

If we are trying to build a happy and secure society, it is not for other girls and women but our mother, sisters, aunts, wives, and sweethearts. We can't live happily always sitting or sleeping in our home but by going outside and interacting with others. Often, we form part of others, for some others. When others think and behave badly, we suffer. Keeping others happy is in our hands. No tablets or tonics can help us that way but self-tuning ourselves to the extent that we never hurt others knowingly, directly or indirectly.

Vitality and beauty are in our body and mind, which God gave us.

They receive admiration when we use them for the right causes.

I don't know how far Vimax can do it?

Perhaps you can think on it!

Datla Chiranjeevi Raju

Hyderabad

6:00 PM IST