RAGGING

Recently I saw a girl at an Internet Café in our area downloading images related to youth culture. I enquired her if she was doing it to do some project. I thought she was a student of theater arts or fashion technology. She said she is a student of engineering. There are many engineering colleges in this region because there are many businessmen in our state also. She felt embarrassed to talk to me. Later the owner of that Internet café told me that she was doing it to satisfy the interests of her seniors at her engineering college as part of their ragging toward her. I hated her after knowing this truth because she was uncomfortable to talk with an unfamiliar fellow at an Internet café but happy to do the rubbish instructed by her seniors. Find my observations on this issue below:

1. Ragging cannot be avoided at colleges and universities by legislations until boys and girls change and realize how to deal with their idiotic and unscrupulous seniors.

2. Rich boys and girls join these colleges and universities to spend their time happily. For them happiness means doing what they like, not minding what others think about it. Ragging is just a part of their enjoyments on their campuses.

3. 60% of rich people in India today would have earned their money and assets through corrupt and dishonest ways through jobs or other avenues. They are basically dogs and bitches. They don’t have time to teach anything to their children at home because they spend their time with other dogs and bitches in other places. The children of such dogs and pigs spoil a college or university environment. Principal or other staff there does little against them because they are afraid of rich villains in this nation. If a girl is raped or if a boy commits suicide due to ragging, it is just a little piece of news for us outsiders because we take every issue as a common thing in this bloody and nasty nation built by Sonia Gandhi, Manmohan Singh, Rahul Gandhi, Sachin Tendulkar and Chidambaram. Don’t say this to them. Chidambaram allocates a budget to get you and me killed like he is doing with naxalites in India. He is an intellectual of our nation. Ordinary people have no right to talk about him.

4. Most of the beautiful girls do not trust good people because they look simple and worthless externally. They run after cheats and scoundrels. Later they get cheated. They blame their parents and society but it is time for them to assess their character first. If something good or bad happened to us when we are between 20 and 80, it is because of our character and fate, not because of others. Do not blame others when something bad happens to you because of your thoughts and behavior once or now. I heard about many famous girls and women involved in prostitution to exhibit their carefree culture and modernity. In open culture, anybody can do anything because it is what you are also doing there. You deserve ragging by dogs and bitches if you are a cowardly dog or bitch at your end. Learn to know your status in the society and maintain it being bold, intelligent and cautious wherever and whenever necessary. Others have no time to pity and save you when you spend time talking on phones, playing video games and dancing in clubs and pubs. If you are a dog or bitch, only such people encourage and admire you publicly or secretly. You are building your life, not I.

5. Girls and women must have an individuality of their own. If they allow their parents and relatives to decide everything for them, they remain show pieces to others. Nobody admires a show piece for long. If somebody is admiring you for long irrationally or illogically, it means he is either a fool or a lover like me. Intelligent and ideal people don’t like your presence also as long as you do not develop an identity and individuality of your own in a positive and appreciable way. How are you different from a dog or bitch on road? Answer this to yourself.

6. 90% of boys and men in this nation think like pimps. If a girl or woman exhibits her beauty in public places, they use words like chic and fuck. It means they are treating you like a prostitute. Indians are still not matured enough in understanding women and treating them decently. A rape case can take place at any time in your village, town or city. Certainly others pity you after you are raped. Newspapers write about your case, women’s rights wings make some fuss about it, others talk about it for sometime, your friends and relatives pity you and such many other publicity things occur around you. You are a piece of news for them. Rapes take place in a nation of anarchy. You discuss others’ cases when you are safe and I discuss your case when you are victimized. Ultimately the victim is “an Indian girl or woman”. Are you sure you are never going to be that one? Do not just discuss problems, find out solutions and know how to keep yourself and others away from them. Then you become a brilliant Indian. Killing rapists publicly is just one measure. When do you girls and women learn this virtue and practice it in India? Police and lawyers are not your saviors. They are just observers and commentators. Don’t trust them. They are living in India, not in the US. Their daughters, wives and relatives are also victims here. We talk about them. They don’t do it. It is all the difference.

7. A girl can be happy when she develops a network of good male friends. A girl can’t help another girl when a rogue is approaching to rape or kill one of them. A reckless and ferocious boy can do it. A boy can live happily in India without girls but a girl can’t do it without good boys in her network. You should know who are good boys and remain in their network of care and guidance for you always. A boy knows well about the bad thoughts and acts of other boys. Seek that knowledge from your boyfriends, lovers, husbands and fathers and know how to behave outside. Love good people and be in touch with them to find this world beautiful and enjoyable. If you always spend with bad boys, you can never enjoy your life in a decent and ideal way which can be appreciated by others also.

8. Express your modernity in treating your villains effectively, not in sleeping with others for chances in films, serials, games, sports, jobs and other venues of fame and money. Fame and money make you a prostitute in the long run. Individuality and values make and retain you as a good girl or woman. It means you are pure honey. Then good bees come in search of you for your friendship and guidance. Be admired and followed by 10 good boys instead of 10000 bad boys and men. Film heroines have bad admirers and classical dancers have good admirers. Many rich boys and men talk like this about a heroine “Can we afford her?’. They treat her as a prostitute. They admire her in public places differently because they want that good image to live in India. Indian males are the worst lot in the world. You need to spend a lifetime with them to really understand them. Classical dancers have a little fame only compared to film heroines but their 10 real admirers are equal to a crore unethical and unreliable fans of our flashy and showy show girls on screen. How many of you consider a film heroine a goddess? I mean a goddess for whom you want to die because she represents great character, admirable values and reliable standards. Many film heroines in this nation think that they achieved a lot. Yes, they achieved a lot like those in circus shows. Once the show is over, nobody is bothered about them really. They are buffoons meant for entertaining rogues and scoundrels in this nation. I am one of them.