SEX

Sex is one of the basic human instincts like hunger, thirst and wants. When man's thoughts and acts were primitive, unpolished, uncivilized and uncultured, sex was understood and practiced in barbaric and brutal way. In course of time, as man evolved in different ways in terms of his understanding of human life and the refined way of celebrating it, sex moved away from his paradigm of basic instincts, which can be expressed and enjoyed at any time with any partner. Traditions and cultures in different countries imposed restrictions on understanding and experiencing sex today.

Broadly, humans can be categorized into two groups based on how they understand and experience sex in their lives:

Brutal Sex

Human Sex

Many brutes do not have ethics or codes of conduct in terms of how they experience sex in their active lives. There are millions of humans like this in this world today who consider sex like any essential need like water, air and food. They enjoy it with their moral and legal partners and other free or purchased sex partners as well. If one enjoys sex with another partner with his or her consent, it can be considered mutually agreed, desired and enjoyable sex. People belonging to this category are many in this world. For them, enjoying sex with anybody is not a morally condemnable, legally punishable or secretly considerable issue. It's open for all. Some of this section of people attempt socially prohibited acts like rape against women and such other heinous sex acts not considered decent and appreciable by sensitive and virtuous people across the world. If these perverts are caught by police or society, they would be punished appropriately. Most of the sensitive and conservative women and girls across the world hate this kind of people and try to remain away from them forever. Many religions consider these men and women dogs and bitches. They are least bothered on how others consider and treat them.

Humans mean who do not think and act like birds and animals in certain aspects of their lives. Human sex relates to such refined, decent and cultured people across the world. For these people, sex is not something like water, air and food which can be accepted from or given to anybody just like that out of fancy or kindness. Conservative Indian girls and women are the best examples for this. For them, sex is a holy and specific act to be shared with their right partners only after marriage and that too with one life partner only as far as possible. Sex is basically for the purpose of reproduction. If some want to taste it differently, according to the suggestions given by others, it is acceptable but with their moral and legal partners only in a highly private and secret environment arranged by them or their elders. These people believe that if one enjoys sex freely with anybody, it is a crime and sin. God punishes them one day or the other. Showing oneself nakedly to others for any purpose or having sex with anybody for any reason is a strict taboo for these individuals except with those who are related to them in a manner accepted and appreciated by the societies and religions to which they belong. These do not allow their basic instincts to dictate them what to do or not to do but their strong conscience built up with ethics and standards which regulate them and guide them always to think and behave like highly sensitive and disciplined and cultured human beings.

Other Considerations

1. Gays and lesbians are equally acceptable and appreciable in every sensitive and civilized society because they like to enjoy sex in their desired manner. Their genes and other strongly influencing factors make them so. There are strong reasons if they are thinking and acting in that order. It is the duty of others not to treat them differently. It is a sin and crime. There is no threat to our civilization or culture due to this section of people in our society. They are better than many dogs and bitches in this world.

2. If one wants to have sex with any number of humans in one's life, one should not talk about ethics or standards in human life. Since life is a free gift given by God and that it can be enjoyed by different people in their desired modes, there is nothing wrong in their having sex with all, paying money or in other ways. They should be ready to accept their siblings and other females related to them also to think and behave like them in the society. Unfortunately, in many conservative societies and faiths, women are suppressed and exploited in this aspect by their men. Many men think that they can have sex with any woman but their women should remain chaste and untouched by external stakeholders and interest groups. Women should fight against such idiots in their respective societies and religions. Basic sex instincts are the same for both men and women. In fact, women's bodies and energy levels are higher than men's in enjoying sex. So, it is their birth right to appropriately use their bodies for maximum levels of sexual enjoyments in their desired manner. They must achieve equality with men in this regard.

3. Prostitution is a crime when a girl or woman is pushed into it by others. It is the respective society, government or religion that is to be condemned and punished if a girl or woman is made helpless and exploited by other men. It is the fundamental responsibility of every civilized government and religion to respect and save the interests of sensitive and ignorant girls and women in their places. When a government or society or religion fails to accord such security and happiness to their girls and women, day and night, it must be considered anarchy, barbarism and cruelty at massive scale. To protect their interests, sensitivities and identities in their desired manner, concerning girls and women must devise effective plans and programs and implement them at their level in order to punish and reform bad boys and men in their places. No girl or woman in this world is ever supposed to satisfy any other boy or man against her basic values and sentiments and she has every right to punish or kill such rogues, criminals and brutes publicly or by strategy at any stage of her life. They must be bold and visionary in teaching lessons to bad boys and men in their respective societies. Solidarity and unionism are important for all girls and women to understand their problems in this sphere and tackle their issues effectively applying their energies in every possible manner. History teaches us that few have interest to fight for us when we sleep.

4. Prostitution is acceptable as a profession if a set of girls and women choose to eke out their living out of it being unable to live considerably in other ways. Every girl and woman has absolute rights to live and enjoy her life in her desired manner. Showing her body to anybody or enjoying sex with anybody out of her interest is acceptable. For her, her beautiful body might be an asset marketing which she wants to live. She can proclaim herself a sex worker or prostitute who offers related services to her clients at a cost or freely for some reasons. It is good for some nations to legalize prostitution instead of harassing innocent girls and women that are caught at brothels and other places run by bad men and women as a secret or public business. At the same time, the respective governments and societies must take every measure to ensure that no girl or woman that never intends to live selling her body has opportunities and capabilities to live in other ways which are considered decent and right by her. A girl or woman must have a choice on how to lead herself in matters of sex and others should not dictate her without her invitation, including a religion or government. Religion, society and government are abstract notions and concepts. Their collective honesty, holiness and purity are questionable and intangible. Such institutions have no moral right to impose biased and criminal restrictions on women or men on how to conduct themselves. It is enough if a state creates great opportunities for all of its citizens to get educated and enlightened on how others considered and practiced certain things of their lives in the past and why they were considered good or bad by others of that time or later. The ultimate authority is an individual to decide how to lead his or her life in a way that does not disturb the rights and interests of other people concerned.

5. Pornography is a branch of human thinking and acting which considers enjoying sex differently with different people based on one's choices and abilities. Some girls and women and boys and men intend to show their naked bodies to other interest groups. They wish to enjoy sex openly with their chosen partners. For them, related thoughts and acts, which are considered unacceptable and sinful by others, are good and enjoyable at any stage of their lives. If others have objections to what they think and act, better they shut their mouths and eyes and ears instead of complaining against free birds in the respective nations. How many girls and women and boys and men in this world are really morally strong and reliable in their real lives as they act in public places. 95% of the celebrities and other influential people in this world in different positions who proclaim themselves as moral deities are in fact dogs and bitches and they behave like brutes in their private lives. Some are caught and some are left. Such people have no moral right to comment against anybody that likes and indulges in pornography, a philosophy and set of practices upholding the scientific and genetic truth that every man and woman is basically a brute and so every brute has right to think and behave like a brute to satisfy the interests of other brutes. However, civilized and cultured societies and governments can establish different systems and mechanisms for those that like and practice pornography in the event that such thoughts and acts might disturb and pollute the sensitive and conservative thoughts, acts and lifestyles of majority in the same or other societies. It is good to identify and respect the interests of the majority stakeholders in every possible case. It does not mean that the interests and identities of the minority must be ignored or suppressed for the satisfaction and fancies of the majority.

6. It is not a good measure to introduce sex related lessons in books used by children below the age of 20. Sex is just one basic instinct of human life. Just like one eats food when hungry and looks for water when thirsty, one naturally and intuitively understands what sex means and how it must be practiced and enjoyed with a partner after certain stage of her or his life. Our ancestors did not give births to our old generations reading about sex in books or seeing films related to sex. A dog knows when to approach a bitch based on its age and instincts. A girl or boy does what he or she is supposed to do with the opposite person after marriage. We need not teach others how to cry or smile or laugh. We need not show others how to have sex, particularly to children at their formative age. Teenage is the most dangerous and turbulent stage of human life in misguiding and torturing one due to the effects of one's hormones and other disturbing factors impacting one's body and mind. Intentionally imparting sex education to them at that stage is like adding fuel to fire. They slowly learn things. It is good enough if we can teach them how to be healthy and keep their body parts clean and safe always using the resources available today. A bitch from the South Indian film industry once proclaimed that having sex before marriage is not an issue. It is like a famous teacher advising all his little students at school that theft and killing others out of one's fancy is not an issue if one is interested in it. Celebrities in this nation had better keep their mouths shut while advising others when they don't know what the right kind of life means basically. Does she like her son or daughter sleeping with a hundred agents before marriage to know what sex means? When you consider this nation your family, you must think and behave like you do it toward your family members. Double standards and false prestige are not supposed to be encouraged in this nation. Celebrities are advised to clean their bottoms first before teaching morals and way of life to others in this nation.

7. Rape and similar abuses against girls and women at schools, colleges, universities and work places is the biggest issue today in the world. Every boy and girl and man and woman must understand that it is not practically possible to get beautiful wives or handsome husbands always as their life partners. If we want to enjoy sex with such partners, who never come into our lives naturally, it is good to go to such places where such men and women offer such services for money or other reasons, legally. Sex instinct is the most dangerous and mysterious of all instincts of humans and it turns a sage also into a rapist in a matter of seconds and our vast human history has ample proofs for this phenomenon. So, better such victims of our societies, who failed to get their desired partners, go to respective service providers to satisfy their chasing sex instincts instead of damaging the sensitivities and purity notions of good and polite and cultured and civilized girls and women in this world. Entertainment, politics and business arenas are the most dangerous fields where girls and women are being exploited very badly today. It is the responsibility of the respective girls and women to keep the boys and men at healthy distances in these spheres to safeguard their interests and security, if they have any at all against their blind wishes of becoming famous and rich in a short span of time, selling and showing anything to anybody in the process. A bitch should not criticize dogs. A woman should never allow a dog to make her famous and rich. In such healthy atmosphere, an artist, employee and political activist can be respected and appreciated for whatever she or he represents or proves rather than for whatever she or he offers to others to gain something. A good girl or woman should never sell her body or chastity to gain something unless it is a matter of life or death in an extreme case. Sexual offer must be the last option in her list of considerations to survive and excel in the domain she chooses to shine some time. Male rapists and female rogues that promote illegal and immoral sex in any society or place must be punished and shot dead publicly because being ethically appreciable as a society, nation, race or family means not encouraging and appreciating sex brutes for many civilized and cultured people in this world. It is our duty to understand virtues and scriptures in the right manner always and practice the good things in them when they are accepted and approved by majority in our societies and faiths. We have no right to impose our bad norms on others.

8. It is unfortunate that many conservative and cultured societies are understanding and practicing sex in unhealthy modes these days, including India and Hindus. The widespread public distribution of condoms and other protective measures to encourage dogs and bitches in nations like India is a bad trend now. Learn how to reform dogs and bitches in this nation to arrest AIDS but not promoting immorality in the process. It is not married couples that are using these devices and measures extensively these days for family planning but dogs and bitches in various fields to delight in free and unlimited sex with their chosen partners just for a kind of "crazy enjoyment with wrong partners". Then why should a Hindu priest utter Vedic mantras during traditional marriages to solemnize that bond when actually both the rogues enjoyed sex before their marriage only and they are going to do the same even after their marriage. Vedic mantras are for those who consider the institution of marriage holy and regulative and not for dogs and bitches who prefer to be sex brutes at some or all stages of their married or unmarried lives. Hypocrisy and debauchery are at highest levels today in conservative countries like India because of the educated and rich and pervert youth and similar animals in most of the villages also. Why should anybody consider India religiously and culturally superior to some other western countries when Indians are also enjoying brutal sex at many stages of their showy and deceptive and commercial lives? Be honest in whatever you think and do in this aspect. Tell your fiancé or fiancée before marriage that you wish to be a dog or bitch even after marriage. If he or she too belongs to such orientation of life, it is good for both of you. A dog likes to sleep with a bitch and the bitch runs after other dogs at times. It is simple logic. Ethics play a great role in building and developing our characters toward a particular direction and shaping our individualities and identities in the process. Ethics mean a set of principles and norms we consider right for our sake and practice them for our interest not minding how others consider us for what we are doing being a part of that domain we created for ourselves. When we have no norms, we should not expect others to follow them. Unfortunately 80% of Indian boys and men and 30% Indian girls and women are not thinking and behaving honestly in this aspect. They are either cheating themselves or others in matters of sex and similar bodily pleasures. Better they come out of this bad game and be honest in their orientations and commitments on the way together. Generally, we like a fruit or sweet when not touched by others. Similarly, many boys and men and girls and women like having sex with one that did not touch others. So, it is the responsibility of both to conduct themselves in matters of sex in such a way which they expect to be understood and practiced by their partners.