Dear Kalpana Sharma,
I read your article “Making War over Love” in The Hindu on 1 November 2009 in its supplement Magazine.
The second paragraph in the beginning of this article briefly reflects the bitter realities of India today where the voiceless have no choice to make from their good considerations. I liked it. It was your argument beyond any bias or interest groups, as a good Indian in short. India today needs only such people that can see an issue from the perspective of a humanist who achieves to see a brighter and happier India, not just bright Chennai or Hyderabad. We don’t live in one part of India and die but move to places and so our agenda must be to help Indians and change India with great thoughts and collective efforts.
I did not like your arguments against Jana Jagruthi Samithi and BJP. Every true mainstream Hindu that intends to see India as a “Hindu majority state but secular in nature” at large must feel and think like me. They are fighting openly to save mainstream Hinduism from the onslaught of western culture and rapid expansion of Christianity in India, just like fundamentalist Muslims are doing Jihad and Christians worldwide are spending billions of dollars for the expansion of their religion across the globe, in every imaginable and possible way they got. BJP or HJS are, as far as I know, are not as violent and barbaric as Islamic fundamentalists or slow and indirect colonization of Christian missionaries and others, in safeguarding their religious interests as a religion oriented organization. Every true father likes saving his children first when there is danger to many. Our poor Hindu fellows of BJP and HJS can be compared with this father.
You argued about the constitutional rights of citizens (including women) in India and their liberty to choose their partners as per their personal agenda. I would have appreciated you if you argued even about the responsibilities of the girls and women in India along with their brothers, fathers and husbands. I agree that women are suffering more than men in this nation even today but not in all sections. This observation is more applicable to a “middle-class woman with economic dependence on her male associates in the family, as a daughter, wife, mother, mother-in-law and grandmother” and not a modern girl or woman that can earn on her own. This is why we are seeing more divorce cases in the modern India because an educated and financially independent woman does not like to live with her idiotic and prejudiced husband. You wrote about only the rights of Indian girls and women that spend most of their time in their decoration rooms only to walk fashionably on roads. I am not talking about great Indian women here that are working hard to cope with their professional and personal lives. They never come out on to the streets to fight for their causes because their understanding of human life is many times better than those of the girls you were writing about.
A house owner does not like to give away his house to his tenants due to their long stay in that house and their violent demand and pressure for it. Tenants have certain responsibilities and they can never equal the status and rights of the house owner. Do Indians that settled abroad like in the USA have the same rights like its citizens? Original Americans (not red Indians also who were also marginalized to some extent) are the house owners here and other fellows that went there for jobs or other purposes are the tenants. I call them rogues if they spread Hinduism in the US like the so-called converted Christians and others are doing in India today in spreading Christianity here. We must not try to kill our host as a honorable guest there.
Apply this logic to the debate you made in the article in terms of Hindus marrying Muslims and others and BJP or HJS objecting such policies and practices. Human beings are subject to insecurity and unrest visualizing their near future due to their overwhelming goodness in whatever they do toward others today, forgetting their existence altogether for the sake of “universal fraternity” and “limitless unconditional love”. Religious conversions are undoubtedly a big threat to the Hindus in India today and tomorrow. I am seeing a Church everywhere now wherever I happen to live. They pray to God loudly and they send their waves of sound to my house every Sunday and even on other days. If every Hindu temple in India starts broadcasting its chants of Vedic mantras and similar voices on festivals and other days, nobody can live in India. We have more number of temples in India than schools and hospitals. This is why Hindu temples are not broadcasting their voices to everybody in their regions and force others to join their religion. Because Hindus expect a India where anybody joins a faith or religion on his or her choice but not due to intentional and forcible conversions by Christians or Muslims, which leads to the death of Hinduism by around 2090 or so, if things go on like this, it is natural and acceptable if the BJP or HJS does what it is supposed to do to save its religion and its people from the present and impending threats.
Today I am seeing many idiotic and nonsensical Indians in the print and electronic media that argue on great causes with two hearts and minds, lacking honesty and purity of thoughts. If you write like a great thinker and dreamer, who intends to see India as a nation where anybody can love anybody and anybody can join any religion and anybody can marry anybody and run away from the related responsibilities after a short time, you are not really writing any article with true love for whatever religion you represent or whatever cause you are arguing for, completely. Limitless liberty is possible only in animal kingdom because there only basic instincts decide their acts and there is no question of legality or morality like it is in our civilized and cultured societies today. We should not write to satisfy others’ interests but to uphold virtues applicable in our region in our context which also fits into others’ beliefs and practices to some extent. Part of your article appeared me like one written by one that argues a case to look great at any cost, barring justifiable limitations and rational parameters.
Let me share my opinion on how one should practice one’s religion taking my case as an example:
I am a mainstream Hindu believing in deities like Lord Krishna, Lord Shiva and Goddess Lakshmi. I am against Hindu cults like Satya Sai Baba, Shirdi Sai Baba, Ayyappa and others because they are small and trivial branches of mainstream Hinduism. They are spiritual guides but not gods and goddesses but we are accepting them like that. I go to the temple of a Hindu God or Goddess once a year or so, on others’ request. I don’t daily worship the image of my favorite God Lord Krishna because He never asked me to be formal and showy in my religious tendencies toward Him, coming to His temples and doing such funny business like many of His foolish and immoral devotees. I don’t invite or encourage others to worship Lord Krishna or join mainstream Hinduism because I believe that religion is a personal issue, as you also strongly believe, and so everybody knows what religion to take for his or her satisfaction or salvation. I do not hate churches or mosques nor hate Christians or Muslims. Also, I don’t go to their abodes of worship to showcase my sense of secularism to them because I am not an actor of Hinduism. I need not go into my neighbor’s home to make him believe that I love him. He can understand my love for him even if I spend in my home only if my love for him is true and sincere. I love my religion and expect others to mind their business, not converting poor, affected and ignorant Hindus into their religions, sweetly and slowly like Christians, or fast and forcibly like fundamentalist Muslims in this nation and the world. I play my role as a good citizen of this nation being a Hindu also that loves other religions and faiths.
India and Indians are known for religious tolerance and universal fraternity in the past and not much today. Such goodness only allowed the British to enter India and exploit us for about 200 years. Such highly open and liberal culture only allowed you today to write against Hindus being in a Hindu majority state. Such ideal culture only sustained the harmonious coexistence and prosperity of many religions and races in India so far. It means that you or others in the world need not teach Hindus the values of religion and the criteria of human rights. A true Hindu means a perfect human being in any part of the world and when he or she fails to think and act that way, he is no more a Hindu.
I am not also a blind admirer of everything Hindus do or certain cults on their behalf. I am strongly against any such Hindu that kills his children based on his or her love or friendship with a creature of another religion like Islam or Christianity. Love can take place between any two creatures for any number of reasons. To save one’s religion or family prestige or such bloody nonsense our Hindu fundamentalists talk about, one should not threaten or kill their children or others because we are currently in an age of culture and tradition that respect others’ interests and priorities also to a great extent.
As a patriot of India, being an integral part of mainstream Hinduism, my stand is as follows on religion, love and marriages in India and certain other matters.
1. Follow your faith and do not force or motivate others to join your cult for any reason. If there are values and standards in the faith you believe in, others can easily and openly appreciate it and join your faith on their own, today or tomorrow. A true religion need not spend billions of dollars or deploy the services of hundreds of terrorists to save and expand its worth and depth. Any religion that thrives by money and force is inferior to a religion that survives tests of time based only on its uniqueness in serving and understanding others, based on such spiritual principles and practices which establish universal harmony and welfare.
2. Do not use your religion or monetary strength to colonize others slowly. If you do so, you are worse than a prostitute, pimp, robber, killer and betrayer. You are killing others when they are asleep. You are accepting your failure and weakness as a religion on your own without others’ questions or debate. Shame, as such!
3. A girl or woman should not try to sit in a safe zone and argue her case minding her comforts and pleasures only. Kalpana Sharma should know the mindsets of girls and women today in India with more money and education in their possession. They want sex before marriage. They eat bad foods. They lead bad lifestyles. They live fashionably leaving others in poverty and darkness. They worship Aiswarya Rai forgetting Mother Teresa and Sarojini Naidu because walking nakedly on a ramp in the fashion shows is easier than working for the development and dreams of this nation. They like to smoke and drink like men because they want to achieve equality with men even in inculcating bad habits and dark culture. Learn to inculcate virtues, realize and practice your responsibilities at all levels and prove as a great citizen of this nation first, before walking into the streets with placards fighting for trivial causes. If you can allow a beauty to sleep with any number of directors and producers to get a chance in a film, you have no moral authority to argue for a great India where every man respects a girl or woman for whatever they represent. I accept that men lived the lives of dogs for ages and are continuing the same. I encourage females to cut off the genitals of any rich man or other idiot that exploits them from any front because they must love their characters and they must live morally with only those that they like for right reasons from their good perspective. The girls and women that are fighting for their rights in India today must first know how to keep men like men, not dogs. If they get money and fame, they are ready to sleep with me and if they are not satisfied on some front, they file a case against me. Why these double standards? First learn the qualities required to be a great girl or woman who can be admired by any boy or girl or man or woman in this nation or the world. Then walk into the streets for your other causes also. The reformation must start from you, not from others. It makes sense to good people also.
4. A girl and woman is always inferior to a boy and man because a boy or man can sleep nakedly in a park at any time of the day or night not fearing a rape but a girl can’t do it. However, when every girl and woman in the world can rape a boy or man in public places just like a male rogue, then equal rights would be automatically transferred to the race of females also by nature itself and God supervises that universal power transmission transaction. Girls and women should not think that they are born to give sex to their male partners or attract others by their beautiful clothes only. Unfortunately, even to this day, 80% of the educated and rich girls can’t marry a boy of their choice without consulting their commercial or traditional parents because their love is not pure. Pure love means innocence, boldness and readiness to face anything to gain love, and nothing else in the way. Do girls and women in love with boys and men have this kind of pure love today? They want a software engineer, an NRI, a businessman or a celebrity to fulfill their dreams of luxurious living and carefree lifestyles. Why should the world pity the plight of girls and women in the world today when they don’t possess virtues and abilities to be considered and treated so? Opportunists can’t be idealists. Girls and women that love money and status of a man rather than his character and values can never live happily in this world. If boys and men are behaving like dogs and pigs, teach them how to live as human beings, practicing the qualities of a goddess as girls and women. When you too start living like a bitch and call girl to compete with similar ones in the male race, how can reformation take place where everybody can live freely but enjoy ultimately without disturbing others’ interests and weaknesses? Virtues only bring you a great image and great men start falling in love with you then. When you think and act like a prostitute, finding fault with others, walking and shouting on the roads, even those that don’t know about you start understanding you in the wrong way. It means you are making your poor status known to many on your own instead of facing the issues from their roots. If 100 girls in your company or college pledge never to sleep with a boy for money or for fake love sake, and be prepared to kill anybody that exploits them by force in helpless conditions, publicly or privately, then men in the world change automatically. Even if there are ten girls in this group, who like to sleep with anybody for pleasure or money, they create 1000 rogues in this nation who hunt for girls representing the sensitivities and qualities of the remaining 90% of the girls. A poisonous male among us damages the lives of 1000 females when a gentleman is readying himself to reform 100 girls in his vicinity. Girls and women must assess the force of evil and be prepared to face it 100% accurately. Kill rapists without going to a police station or court because there are also men, who further try to exploit your already blemished life. Kill tigers if they attack you and befriend them only if they love you honestly.
5. Today girls in the schools and colleges and certain segment of women in offices and homes are looking for sex from multiple partners, for joy or money. Sex is a multi-billion dollar secret industry today in the world. Millionaires and billionaires would be ready to spend in lacs and crores to sleep with a beauty that came across them in their offices or other institutions. We see them more in film, sports, business and education arenas. Many females are earning in crores from this easy business. Millions of girls and women pose nakedly and participate in limitless sex shows to earn money and fame through pornography. There are millions of websites on Internet today exposing sex and brutality involved between a sex offerer and sex seeker, for money or pleasure. Who controls them? When they are not controlled, how can women and girls save themselves in public places also? A boy or man that sees many girls and women nakedly, secretly, gets compelled to have sex with many girls and women in the accessible area with his affordable money and resources. This is what is happening in India today as well. Many of our rogues in the film industry frequent Thailand to have limitless sex there because it is not that possible in India today because still some Indian women choose to live as a typical Indian woman that intends to sleep with her husband only till the end of her life. I appreciate every junior artiste and heroine in the Indian film industry today if they start an agency who write stories of their experiences in the film industry regarding how they get chances and how they struggle to survive there offering sex to as many dogs as possible. I expect modern women like Kalpana Sharma to start such movement to safeguard their basic interests. Why are you fighting for the wrong and quite ignorable causes when your fathers, brothers, cousins and grandfathers are looking for girls and women for paid or free sex when you go out of your home to sleep with another boy or man for the same reasons or to lead a great life like a perfect Indian girl or woman? I estimate that 60% of the girls and women in India today don’t consider sleeping with multiple partners wrong, with the support of celebrities like Khusboo in Chennai. Millions of boys and men that were accustomed to limitless immoral sex with these girls and women generally rape others from the other segments also. If we allow 10 rapists to sleep in our home at night to save them from the arrest of police, for humanitarian causes, they may ask us, after a little time, “Madams! You saved us from them. What’s wrong if we have a show now with you also! Is it not a humanitarian cause to offer free sex to a rapist also?” Girls and women in this nation are more dangerous and villainous toward their race rather than from the race of men. A mother-in-law tortures her daughter-in-law for more dowry; a rich woman helps her husband to bring some innocent girls into her home and make it a secret brothel; a senior artiste in the film industry mediates to motivate young heroines to sleep with famous heroes and other celebrities and you can add more atrocities women perpetrate toward other women. Reform your race first. Then men automatically change. When you have double standards in your lifestyles, arguments and articles, you would have an ugly society built up by you around you which may assault you at any time. Then many pity you. They don’t try to change our systems of living and ruling because they have no time or interest for that but to suffer like you when assaulted the following night. Indians are stinking and nasty rogues and they leave things until they lead to a calamity. Then all discuss it for a while and forget it. Who can change 80% bad Indians? Because others don’t come to change us, rest of the 20% good Indians must take the initiate. They did not take it up so far. Future is uncertain. Let’s accept this fact and then prepare ourselves in whatever way we like, night clubs, pubs, brothels and such other attractive places!
6. 90% of the politicians we have today intend to sleep with many beauties spending money and using their influence. For them, sex means a commodity that can be purchased in the market. If one negates, they rape and throw her dead body in dark bushes. Police rush there the following day. They know who raped her. They don’t file a case against that politician because the following day he sends ten people to his house to rape his wife, daughters, cousins and his neighbors. Humanists, feminists and patriots like Kalpana Sharma must understand that we created bad politicians, bad businessmen, bad celebrities and bad police and lawyers and they decide our course of lives, not the farmers in the villages or hawkers on our roads. Our aversion to participate in democracy and our negligence to react to a calamity of others one day puts us in the same or more dangerous hell and that day we die silently, not noticed or pitied even by our neighbors because they have no time for that. There is anarchy in India today and women’s issues are just a fragment of this bigger issue. Good people are not coming together to question and kill rogues on the spot, be they in films, sports, businesses or temples. Shun blind loyalty toward your public and hidden villains. When everybody around is happy and virtuous, you can walk freely and joyfully even during the midnights. Participate in that big game. Then we can easily win our small games. Send a billion letters to Sonia Gandhi and Prathiba Patil asking them why you ordinary girls and women in India are unable to live securely and happily even today. If they don’t respond, no girl or woman in India should go to her educational institution, cook food in homes, go to offices or do anything that helps this nation function normally. Keep writing different letters to every celebrity in this nation until you are able to create the kind of India you want to live in. Do not love your villains and make them more powerful celebrities at the cost of your innocence, ignorance and lack of vision for your secure future. Bigger issues can’t be settled only when a few fight for them when millions are sitting comfortably in their homes and offices. Create history expressing your boldness in innovative and constructive ways and thus solving your problems forever. We need intelligence, solidarity, continuous efforts, patience and vision to awaken our race and achieve our great rights across the world, pending for ages. Can you stop homemakers from watching nonsensical serials on television channels? Can you stop girls from joining films and fashion shows to earn money fast in immoral ways? If you don’t expect me to “moral police” your thoughts, acts and lifestyles, like BJP or HJS, do not come to me when somebody rapes you some night. You know how to save yourself. You can fight for your causes on your own. You don’t need moral police for that. He wanted to have sex with you. You were not ready for it. He took it by force. It is all a game of need fulfillment at any cost, barring morals, the same morals which you are negating now when it comes to curtail your liberty to some extent. If you don’t want moral police, don’t consider rape or prostitution a wrong thing. When a girl sleeps with ten desired people for selfishness, what is wrong in the same girl sleeping with 100 men for idealism sake, barring morality? Moral police teach you what is good and bad for you also. Ordinary police come to rescue you when you are raped and being photographed and interviewed by 24-hour news channels. Which police do you want? Which party do you like, BJP that requests you to live like a good Hindu or Congress that makes up a soup of all races and religions very soon where anybody can do anything. We must impose certain rules and regulations upon our lives to have an identity of our own and still we can respect and live with other identities and that kind of diversity in our regions and beliefs only kept India beautiful even to others to this day. Otherwise why should any foreigner visit India? For a prostitute which he can easily get in Thailand, for a Coca Cola which is available in many parts of the world or modern culture which means no rules but just enjoyment with madness. What is it that makes India unique from many respects in comparison to other cultures and nations? Its distinct culture wherein a woman lives with her husband only till the end of her life facing many problems on the way unlike an American parent who leaves her child at any time if she finds somebody else more attractive and comfortable. There are a number of demerits and drawbacks in our Indian culture also and we have to attend them on a war-footing. We are not doing it. We must first kill Hindus that go to temples but torture women in home and outside like anything. They are acting great roles outside but thinking and behaving like pimps and traitors inside. Let’s treat these internal wounds and infections first before embarking on larger issues.
7. I observed an ugly trend recently in the Indian politics and business. If a gentleman like Jaya Prakash Narayan of Lok Satta is on a mission to change India, certain groups are formed to campaign against him secretly creating some rumors about him. They say, “He has those assets there. He says one thing publicly but does different things secretly. He is also an actor like others”. Then ordinary people (voters) think and talk about him the following way, “Who votes to him? He can’t spend money and distribute liquor during elections like other political parties. Everybody is corrupt and spoilt today. Nobody votes to him. Why should I waste my vote casting to him knowing that he does not win the elections?” Then, very few corporate companies in India today are ready to fund the Lok Satta party because it questions their immoral and illegal businesses if it gets political power. This is the status of a real social reformer in India today. If God comes to save me from the hell, I am saying “How can I believe that you are God. I never saw you. I know Lord Yama for long. I am sorry I can’t come with you to heaven but to known hell along with him. Better luck next time!” Enlightened people of India like Kalpana Sharma must join social reformers like Lok Satta and encourage or start such political parties in every part of India. When we get good people as our leaders, our policies would be good and our lives would be safe, secure and happy. We are not interested in this real and useful game but in rushing to the streets when a rape case takes place somewhere in the country. How many educated, rich and eligible female voters are participating in the elections today at the state or central level? They sleep with their boyfriends on the day of polling and shout on the roads when other girl’s boyfriend rapes them on the other day after the elections. Police consider it a petty issue. Chief Minster takes it easy. Prime Minister talks about the safety and security of women in India occasionally and formally. Her Excellency Prathibha Patil reads out her lecture on other formal occasions. India is perfect in discussing issues, not in addressing them with 100% commitment and honesty from day one. What are the educated girls and women doing in India when the reservation bill to women was not passed in the Parliament? What are girls and women doing in Tamil Nadu when Karuna Nidhi appointed his son Stalin the Deputy Chief Minister, hinting that he would be the next chief minister in that state after him. They concentrate on their family welfare, forgetting state welfare. They earn in billions for their families. They thrust and impose their heirs as our leaders. Then, who thinks about the safety and security of girls and women in India? Politics in our state impact our lives. Films in our area influence our sensibilities and lifestyles. Businesses in our region decide the values and standards of employees in our part of the nation. We are part of a bigger nation. When we fight for smaller issues, we can’t see a great India but a great colony or town only. When you go to another village or town, somebody rapes you because it is their tendency and open culture there and it is quite ordinary and acceptable there. You can’t be comfortable and happy until your colleagues and neighbors are happy. You can’t be happy in Bangalore or Chennai when the rest of the nation is in gloom. Those affected in those areas come to your city to loot or kill you publicly or secretly. Our thoughts, agenda and collective and effective struggle must be for the larger issues on a long-term basis until our vital goals are achieved. Do we have this healthy environment in India today? When do we have it and who should start it and continue it? Ask if your colleagues or neighbors are ready to engage in such thoughts and acts that benefit many. They won’t join you. Ask them to come to see a film, circus, cricket, party or pass time in a park. They rush with you. You can’t achieve things alone among a set of rogues and idiots around you. Motivate them first from that end. When issues are bigger, the number of fighters against them must be large. If only a few fight, others watch it sitting in their homes.
8. I loved some girls and wanted to marry them. I did not consider their castes or regions. I tried simply or differently to win their love. None of them liked to marry me because I was simple, honest and frank in my thoughts and approach. They found me negligible. Eventually I married the girl accepted and approved even by my parents toward the end of this love game. She is my Goddess today. The modern Indian girls taught me a lesson, “We don’t love you if you come to us directly. You must know acting, cheating and beating about the bush crazily. We must find you funny and interesting in a different way. Get out idiot”. Unfortunately, these girls that failed to accept my love to them fall in that category of girls and women you are arguing for, “enjoying rights, not responsibilities”. Their right is to think like a modern girl who does not like ordinary, simple but true things, but something that looks crazy, challenging and mysterious. In other words, one that takes her to cinemas, clubs, bike rides, pubs and night parties and ultimately make her a mother before he realizes it and then leave her. If you are fighting for this kind of girls and women, who do not have a distinct identity of their own, whose demands from their families, societies and nation keep changing like their interests for clothes and hairdos, perhaps you are arguing for a wrong set of girls and women. By the time you conclude your arguments on their behalf, they may remark, “Leave it. I think I am wrong. Why making it an issue. This is common in India today”. This is where the entry of moral police is vital because they teach you the nature of right and wrong causes so that you can fight for the right causes if you are not a wrong person basically. I happen to be one of such moral police in India, associated with mainstream Hinduism. It teaches us, “You are responsible for your life. God helps you only if you try to be good always. He leaves you in the dark when you turn bad. He is not your blind savior, but visionary guide and unkind monarch”. It means the reformation and enlightenment must start from you by your committed efforts and God does not freely infuse it in you out of pity or foolishness or carelessness.
Sincerely,
Datla Chiranjeevi Raju.
Hyderabad,
2 November 2009,
2:40 PM IST,
letterlatter@yahoo.co.in
http://virahini.blogspot.com
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The second paragraph in the beginning of this article briefly reflects the bitter realities of India today where the voiceless have no choice to make from their good considerations. I liked it. It was your argument beyond any bias or interest groups, as a good Indian in short. India today needs only such people that can see an issue from the perspective of a humanist who achieves to see a brighter and happier India, not just bright Chennai or Hyderabad. We don’t live in one part of India and die but move to places and so our agenda must be to help Indians and change India with great thoughts and collective efforts.
I did not like your arguments against Jana Jagruthi Samithi and BJP. Every true mainstream Hindu that intends to see India as a “Hindu majority state but secular in nature” at large must feel and think like me. They are fighting openly to save mainstream Hinduism from the onslaught of western culture and rapid expansion of Christianity in India, just like fundamentalist Muslims are doing Jihad and Christians worldwide are spending billions of dollars for the expansion of their religion across the globe, in every imaginable and possible way they got. BJP or HJS are, as far as I know, are not as violent and barbaric as Islamic fundamentalists or slow and indirect colonization of Christian missionaries and others, in safeguarding their religious interests as a religion oriented organization. Every true father likes saving his children first when there is danger to many. Our poor Hindu fellows of BJP and HJS can be compared with this father.
You argued about the constitutional rights of citizens (including women) in India and their liberty to choose their partners as per their personal agenda. I would have appreciated you if you argued even about the responsibilities of the girls and women in India along with their brothers, fathers and husbands. I agree that women are suffering more than men in this nation even today but not in all sections. This observation is more applicable to a “middle-class woman with economic dependence on her male associates in the family, as a daughter, wife, mother, mother-in-law and grandmother” and not a modern girl or woman that can earn on her own. This is why we are seeing more divorce cases in the modern India because an educated and financially independent woman does not like to live with her idiotic and prejudiced husband. You wrote about only the rights of Indian girls and women that spend most of their time in their decoration rooms only to walk fashionably on roads. I am not talking about great Indian women here that are working hard to cope with their professional and personal lives. They never come out on to the streets to fight for their causes because their understanding of human life is many times better than those of the girls you were writing about.
A house owner does not like to give away his house to his tenants due to their long stay in that house and their violent demand and pressure for it. Tenants have certain responsibilities and they can never equal the status and rights of the house owner. Do Indians that settled abroad like in the USA have the same rights like its citizens? Original Americans (not red Indians also who were also marginalized to some extent) are the house owners here and other fellows that went there for jobs or other purposes are the tenants. I call them rogues if they spread Hinduism in the US like the so-called converted Christians and others are doing in India today in spreading Christianity here. We must not try to kill our host as a honorable guest there.
Apply this logic to the debate you made in the article in terms of Hindus marrying Muslims and others and BJP or HJS objecting such policies and practices. Human beings are subject to insecurity and unrest visualizing their near future due to their overwhelming goodness in whatever they do toward others today, forgetting their existence altogether for the sake of “universal fraternity” and “limitless unconditional love”. Religious conversions are undoubtedly a big threat to the Hindus in India today and tomorrow. I am seeing a Church everywhere now wherever I happen to live. They pray to God loudly and they send their waves of sound to my house every Sunday and even on other days. If every Hindu temple in India starts broadcasting its chants of Vedic mantras and similar voices on festivals and other days, nobody can live in India. We have more number of temples in India than schools and hospitals. This is why Hindu temples are not broadcasting their voices to everybody in their regions and force others to join their religion. Because Hindus expect a India where anybody joins a faith or religion on his or her choice but not due to intentional and forcible conversions by Christians or Muslims, which leads to the death of Hinduism by around 2090 or so, if things go on like this, it is natural and acceptable if the BJP or HJS does what it is supposed to do to save its religion and its people from the present and impending threats.
Today I am seeing many idiotic and nonsensical Indians in the print and electronic media that argue on great causes with two hearts and minds, lacking honesty and purity of thoughts. If you write like a great thinker and dreamer, who intends to see India as a nation where anybody can love anybody and anybody can join any religion and anybody can marry anybody and run away from the related responsibilities after a short time, you are not really writing any article with true love for whatever religion you represent or whatever cause you are arguing for, completely. Limitless liberty is possible only in animal kingdom because there only basic instincts decide their acts and there is no question of legality or morality like it is in our civilized and cultured societies today. We should not write to satisfy others’ interests but to uphold virtues applicable in our region in our context which also fits into others’ beliefs and practices to some extent. Part of your article appeared me like one written by one that argues a case to look great at any cost, barring justifiable limitations and rational parameters.
Let me share my opinion on how one should practice one’s religion taking my case as an example:
I am a mainstream Hindu believing in deities like Lord Krishna, Lord Shiva and Goddess Lakshmi. I am against Hindu cults like Satya Sai Baba, Shirdi Sai Baba, Ayyappa and others because they are small and trivial branches of mainstream Hinduism. They are spiritual guides but not gods and goddesses but we are accepting them like that. I go to the temple of a Hindu God or Goddess once a year or so, on others’ request. I don’t daily worship the image of my favorite God Lord Krishna because He never asked me to be formal and showy in my religious tendencies toward Him, coming to His temples and doing such funny business like many of His foolish and immoral devotees. I don’t invite or encourage others to worship Lord Krishna or join mainstream Hinduism because I believe that religion is a personal issue, as you also strongly believe, and so everybody knows what religion to take for his or her satisfaction or salvation. I do not hate churches or mosques nor hate Christians or Muslims. Also, I don’t go to their abodes of worship to showcase my sense of secularism to them because I am not an actor of Hinduism. I need not go into my neighbor’s home to make him believe that I love him. He can understand my love for him even if I spend in my home only if my love for him is true and sincere. I love my religion and expect others to mind their business, not converting poor, affected and ignorant Hindus into their religions, sweetly and slowly like Christians, or fast and forcibly like fundamentalist Muslims in this nation and the world. I play my role as a good citizen of this nation being a Hindu also that loves other religions and faiths.
India and Indians are known for religious tolerance and universal fraternity in the past and not much today. Such goodness only allowed the British to enter India and exploit us for about 200 years. Such highly open and liberal culture only allowed you today to write against Hindus being in a Hindu majority state. Such ideal culture only sustained the harmonious coexistence and prosperity of many religions and races in India so far. It means that you or others in the world need not teach Hindus the values of religion and the criteria of human rights. A true Hindu means a perfect human being in any part of the world and when he or she fails to think and act that way, he is no more a Hindu.
I am not also a blind admirer of everything Hindus do or certain cults on their behalf. I am strongly against any such Hindu that kills his children based on his or her love or friendship with a creature of another religion like Islam or Christianity. Love can take place between any two creatures for any number of reasons. To save one’s religion or family prestige or such bloody nonsense our Hindu fundamentalists talk about, one should not threaten or kill their children or others because we are currently in an age of culture and tradition that respect others’ interests and priorities also to a great extent.
As a patriot of India, being an integral part of mainstream Hinduism, my stand is as follows on religion, love and marriages in India and certain other matters.
1. Follow your faith and do not force or motivate others to join your cult for any reason. If there are values and standards in the faith you believe in, others can easily and openly appreciate it and join your faith on their own, today or tomorrow. A true religion need not spend billions of dollars or deploy the services of hundreds of terrorists to save and expand its worth and depth. Any religion that thrives by money and force is inferior to a religion that survives tests of time based only on its uniqueness in serving and understanding others, based on such spiritual principles and practices which establish universal harmony and welfare.
2. Do not use your religion or monetary strength to colonize others slowly. If you do so, you are worse than a prostitute, pimp, robber, killer and betrayer. You are killing others when they are asleep. You are accepting your failure and weakness as a religion on your own without others’ questions or debate. Shame, as such!
3. A girl or woman should not try to sit in a safe zone and argue her case minding her comforts and pleasures only. Kalpana Sharma should know the mindsets of girls and women today in India with more money and education in their possession. They want sex before marriage. They eat bad foods. They lead bad lifestyles. They live fashionably leaving others in poverty and darkness. They worship Aiswarya Rai forgetting Mother Teresa and Sarojini Naidu because walking nakedly on a ramp in the fashion shows is easier than working for the development and dreams of this nation. They like to smoke and drink like men because they want to achieve equality with men even in inculcating bad habits and dark culture. Learn to inculcate virtues, realize and practice your responsibilities at all levels and prove as a great citizen of this nation first, before walking into the streets with placards fighting for trivial causes. If you can allow a beauty to sleep with any number of directors and producers to get a chance in a film, you have no moral authority to argue for a great India where every man respects a girl or woman for whatever they represent. I accept that men lived the lives of dogs for ages and are continuing the same. I encourage females to cut off the genitals of any rich man or other idiot that exploits them from any front because they must love their characters and they must live morally with only those that they like for right reasons from their good perspective. The girls and women that are fighting for their rights in India today must first know how to keep men like men, not dogs. If they get money and fame, they are ready to sleep with me and if they are not satisfied on some front, they file a case against me. Why these double standards? First learn the qualities required to be a great girl or woman who can be admired by any boy or girl or man or woman in this nation or the world. Then walk into the streets for your other causes also. The reformation must start from you, not from others. It makes sense to good people also.
4. A girl and woman is always inferior to a boy and man because a boy or man can sleep nakedly in a park at any time of the day or night not fearing a rape but a girl can’t do it. However, when every girl and woman in the world can rape a boy or man in public places just like a male rogue, then equal rights would be automatically transferred to the race of females also by nature itself and God supervises that universal power transmission transaction. Girls and women should not think that they are born to give sex to their male partners or attract others by their beautiful clothes only. Unfortunately, even to this day, 80% of the educated and rich girls can’t marry a boy of their choice without consulting their commercial or traditional parents because their love is not pure. Pure love means innocence, boldness and readiness to face anything to gain love, and nothing else in the way. Do girls and women in love with boys and men have this kind of pure love today? They want a software engineer, an NRI, a businessman or a celebrity to fulfill their dreams of luxurious living and carefree lifestyles. Why should the world pity the plight of girls and women in the world today when they don’t possess virtues and abilities to be considered and treated so? Opportunists can’t be idealists. Girls and women that love money and status of a man rather than his character and values can never live happily in this world. If boys and men are behaving like dogs and pigs, teach them how to live as human beings, practicing the qualities of a goddess as girls and women. When you too start living like a bitch and call girl to compete with similar ones in the male race, how can reformation take place where everybody can live freely but enjoy ultimately without disturbing others’ interests and weaknesses? Virtues only bring you a great image and great men start falling in love with you then. When you think and act like a prostitute, finding fault with others, walking and shouting on the roads, even those that don’t know about you start understanding you in the wrong way. It means you are making your poor status known to many on your own instead of facing the issues from their roots. If 100 girls in your company or college pledge never to sleep with a boy for money or for fake love sake, and be prepared to kill anybody that exploits them by force in helpless conditions, publicly or privately, then men in the world change automatically. Even if there are ten girls in this group, who like to sleep with anybody for pleasure or money, they create 1000 rogues in this nation who hunt for girls representing the sensitivities and qualities of the remaining 90% of the girls. A poisonous male among us damages the lives of 1000 females when a gentleman is readying himself to reform 100 girls in his vicinity. Girls and women must assess the force of evil and be prepared to face it 100% accurately. Kill rapists without going to a police station or court because there are also men, who further try to exploit your already blemished life. Kill tigers if they attack you and befriend them only if they love you honestly.
5. Today girls in the schools and colleges and certain segment of women in offices and homes are looking for sex from multiple partners, for joy or money. Sex is a multi-billion dollar secret industry today in the world. Millionaires and billionaires would be ready to spend in lacs and crores to sleep with a beauty that came across them in their offices or other institutions. We see them more in film, sports, business and education arenas. Many females are earning in crores from this easy business. Millions of girls and women pose nakedly and participate in limitless sex shows to earn money and fame through pornography. There are millions of websites on Internet today exposing sex and brutality involved between a sex offerer and sex seeker, for money or pleasure. Who controls them? When they are not controlled, how can women and girls save themselves in public places also? A boy or man that sees many girls and women nakedly, secretly, gets compelled to have sex with many girls and women in the accessible area with his affordable money and resources. This is what is happening in India today as well. Many of our rogues in the film industry frequent Thailand to have limitless sex there because it is not that possible in India today because still some Indian women choose to live as a typical Indian woman that intends to sleep with her husband only till the end of her life. I appreciate every junior artiste and heroine in the Indian film industry today if they start an agency who write stories of their experiences in the film industry regarding how they get chances and how they struggle to survive there offering sex to as many dogs as possible. I expect modern women like Kalpana Sharma to start such movement to safeguard their basic interests. Why are you fighting for the wrong and quite ignorable causes when your fathers, brothers, cousins and grandfathers are looking for girls and women for paid or free sex when you go out of your home to sleep with another boy or man for the same reasons or to lead a great life like a perfect Indian girl or woman? I estimate that 60% of the girls and women in India today don’t consider sleeping with multiple partners wrong, with the support of celebrities like Khusboo in Chennai. Millions of boys and men that were accustomed to limitless immoral sex with these girls and women generally rape others from the other segments also. If we allow 10 rapists to sleep in our home at night to save them from the arrest of police, for humanitarian causes, they may ask us, after a little time, “Madams! You saved us from them. What’s wrong if we have a show now with you also! Is it not a humanitarian cause to offer free sex to a rapist also?” Girls and women in this nation are more dangerous and villainous toward their race rather than from the race of men. A mother-in-law tortures her daughter-in-law for more dowry; a rich woman helps her husband to bring some innocent girls into her home and make it a secret brothel; a senior artiste in the film industry mediates to motivate young heroines to sleep with famous heroes and other celebrities and you can add more atrocities women perpetrate toward other women. Reform your race first. Then men automatically change. When you have double standards in your lifestyles, arguments and articles, you would have an ugly society built up by you around you which may assault you at any time. Then many pity you. They don’t try to change our systems of living and ruling because they have no time or interest for that but to suffer like you when assaulted the following night. Indians are stinking and nasty rogues and they leave things until they lead to a calamity. Then all discuss it for a while and forget it. Who can change 80% bad Indians? Because others don’t come to change us, rest of the 20% good Indians must take the initiate. They did not take it up so far. Future is uncertain. Let’s accept this fact and then prepare ourselves in whatever way we like, night clubs, pubs, brothels and such other attractive places!
6. 90% of the politicians we have today intend to sleep with many beauties spending money and using their influence. For them, sex means a commodity that can be purchased in the market. If one negates, they rape and throw her dead body in dark bushes. Police rush there the following day. They know who raped her. They don’t file a case against that politician because the following day he sends ten people to his house to rape his wife, daughters, cousins and his neighbors. Humanists, feminists and patriots like Kalpana Sharma must understand that we created bad politicians, bad businessmen, bad celebrities and bad police and lawyers and they decide our course of lives, not the farmers in the villages or hawkers on our roads. Our aversion to participate in democracy and our negligence to react to a calamity of others one day puts us in the same or more dangerous hell and that day we die silently, not noticed or pitied even by our neighbors because they have no time for that. There is anarchy in India today and women’s issues are just a fragment of this bigger issue. Good people are not coming together to question and kill rogues on the spot, be they in films, sports, businesses or temples. Shun blind loyalty toward your public and hidden villains. When everybody around is happy and virtuous, you can walk freely and joyfully even during the midnights. Participate in that big game. Then we can easily win our small games. Send a billion letters to Sonia Gandhi and Prathiba Patil asking them why you ordinary girls and women in India are unable to live securely and happily even today. If they don’t respond, no girl or woman in India should go to her educational institution, cook food in homes, go to offices or do anything that helps this nation function normally. Keep writing different letters to every celebrity in this nation until you are able to create the kind of India you want to live in. Do not love your villains and make them more powerful celebrities at the cost of your innocence, ignorance and lack of vision for your secure future. Bigger issues can’t be settled only when a few fight for them when millions are sitting comfortably in their homes and offices. Create history expressing your boldness in innovative and constructive ways and thus solving your problems forever. We need intelligence, solidarity, continuous efforts, patience and vision to awaken our race and achieve our great rights across the world, pending for ages. Can you stop homemakers from watching nonsensical serials on television channels? Can you stop girls from joining films and fashion shows to earn money fast in immoral ways? If you don’t expect me to “moral police” your thoughts, acts and lifestyles, like BJP or HJS, do not come to me when somebody rapes you some night. You know how to save yourself. You can fight for your causes on your own. You don’t need moral police for that. He wanted to have sex with you. You were not ready for it. He took it by force. It is all a game of need fulfillment at any cost, barring morals, the same morals which you are negating now when it comes to curtail your liberty to some extent. If you don’t want moral police, don’t consider rape or prostitution a wrong thing. When a girl sleeps with ten desired people for selfishness, what is wrong in the same girl sleeping with 100 men for idealism sake, barring morality? Moral police teach you what is good and bad for you also. Ordinary police come to rescue you when you are raped and being photographed and interviewed by 24-hour news channels. Which police do you want? Which party do you like, BJP that requests you to live like a good Hindu or Congress that makes up a soup of all races and religions very soon where anybody can do anything. We must impose certain rules and regulations upon our lives to have an identity of our own and still we can respect and live with other identities and that kind of diversity in our regions and beliefs only kept India beautiful even to others to this day. Otherwise why should any foreigner visit India? For a prostitute which he can easily get in Thailand, for a Coca Cola which is available in many parts of the world or modern culture which means no rules but just enjoyment with madness. What is it that makes India unique from many respects in comparison to other cultures and nations? Its distinct culture wherein a woman lives with her husband only till the end of her life facing many problems on the way unlike an American parent who leaves her child at any time if she finds somebody else more attractive and comfortable. There are a number of demerits and drawbacks in our Indian culture also and we have to attend them on a war-footing. We are not doing it. We must first kill Hindus that go to temples but torture women in home and outside like anything. They are acting great roles outside but thinking and behaving like pimps and traitors inside. Let’s treat these internal wounds and infections first before embarking on larger issues.
7. I observed an ugly trend recently in the Indian politics and business. If a gentleman like Jaya Prakash Narayan of Lok Satta is on a mission to change India, certain groups are formed to campaign against him secretly creating some rumors about him. They say, “He has those assets there. He says one thing publicly but does different things secretly. He is also an actor like others”. Then ordinary people (voters) think and talk about him the following way, “Who votes to him? He can’t spend money and distribute liquor during elections like other political parties. Everybody is corrupt and spoilt today. Nobody votes to him. Why should I waste my vote casting to him knowing that he does not win the elections?” Then, very few corporate companies in India today are ready to fund the Lok Satta party because it questions their immoral and illegal businesses if it gets political power. This is the status of a real social reformer in India today. If God comes to save me from the hell, I am saying “How can I believe that you are God. I never saw you. I know Lord Yama for long. I am sorry I can’t come with you to heaven but to known hell along with him. Better luck next time!” Enlightened people of India like Kalpana Sharma must join social reformers like Lok Satta and encourage or start such political parties in every part of India. When we get good people as our leaders, our policies would be good and our lives would be safe, secure and happy. We are not interested in this real and useful game but in rushing to the streets when a rape case takes place somewhere in the country. How many educated, rich and eligible female voters are participating in the elections today at the state or central level? They sleep with their boyfriends on the day of polling and shout on the roads when other girl’s boyfriend rapes them on the other day after the elections. Police consider it a petty issue. Chief Minster takes it easy. Prime Minister talks about the safety and security of women in India occasionally and formally. Her Excellency Prathibha Patil reads out her lecture on other formal occasions. India is perfect in discussing issues, not in addressing them with 100% commitment and honesty from day one. What are the educated girls and women doing in India when the reservation bill to women was not passed in the Parliament? What are girls and women doing in Tamil Nadu when Karuna Nidhi appointed his son Stalin the Deputy Chief Minister, hinting that he would be the next chief minister in that state after him. They concentrate on their family welfare, forgetting state welfare. They earn in billions for their families. They thrust and impose their heirs as our leaders. Then, who thinks about the safety and security of girls and women in India? Politics in our state impact our lives. Films in our area influence our sensibilities and lifestyles. Businesses in our region decide the values and standards of employees in our part of the nation. We are part of a bigger nation. When we fight for smaller issues, we can’t see a great India but a great colony or town only. When you go to another village or town, somebody rapes you because it is their tendency and open culture there and it is quite ordinary and acceptable there. You can’t be comfortable and happy until your colleagues and neighbors are happy. You can’t be happy in Bangalore or Chennai when the rest of the nation is in gloom. Those affected in those areas come to your city to loot or kill you publicly or secretly. Our thoughts, agenda and collective and effective struggle must be for the larger issues on a long-term basis until our vital goals are achieved. Do we have this healthy environment in India today? When do we have it and who should start it and continue it? Ask if your colleagues or neighbors are ready to engage in such thoughts and acts that benefit many. They won’t join you. Ask them to come to see a film, circus, cricket, party or pass time in a park. They rush with you. You can’t achieve things alone among a set of rogues and idiots around you. Motivate them first from that end. When issues are bigger, the number of fighters against them must be large. If only a few fight, others watch it sitting in their homes.
8. I loved some girls and wanted to marry them. I did not consider their castes or regions. I tried simply or differently to win their love. None of them liked to marry me because I was simple, honest and frank in my thoughts and approach. They found me negligible. Eventually I married the girl accepted and approved even by my parents toward the end of this love game. She is my Goddess today. The modern Indian girls taught me a lesson, “We don’t love you if you come to us directly. You must know acting, cheating and beating about the bush crazily. We must find you funny and interesting in a different way. Get out idiot”. Unfortunately, these girls that failed to accept my love to them fall in that category of girls and women you are arguing for, “enjoying rights, not responsibilities”. Their right is to think like a modern girl who does not like ordinary, simple but true things, but something that looks crazy, challenging and mysterious. In other words, one that takes her to cinemas, clubs, bike rides, pubs and night parties and ultimately make her a mother before he realizes it and then leave her. If you are fighting for this kind of girls and women, who do not have a distinct identity of their own, whose demands from their families, societies and nation keep changing like their interests for clothes and hairdos, perhaps you are arguing for a wrong set of girls and women. By the time you conclude your arguments on their behalf, they may remark, “Leave it. I think I am wrong. Why making it an issue. This is common in India today”. This is where the entry of moral police is vital because they teach you the nature of right and wrong causes so that you can fight for the right causes if you are not a wrong person basically. I happen to be one of such moral police in India, associated with mainstream Hinduism. It teaches us, “You are responsible for your life. God helps you only if you try to be good always. He leaves you in the dark when you turn bad. He is not your blind savior, but visionary guide and unkind monarch”. It means the reformation and enlightenment must start from you by your committed efforts and God does not freely infuse it in you out of pity or foolishness or carelessness.
Sincerely,
Datla Chiranjeevi Raju.
Hyderabad,
2 November 2009,
2:40 PM IST,
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